Been Reading!

Reading to me can be fun. Only if I get to read what I like. The giving tree is my all time favorite book to read. I know it is elementary, but I like that book. So far, I have read 2 books on this break, and I am in the office today looking for more. I have been waiting for years to get the hunger to read. Well, it has come. Right before turning 37(January 9th)(Not too early to start shopping for my present). Anyway, the two books I have read and reread are The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, and The Unchurched. Both revealed a lot to me as a christian, and a christian educator. We as Christians have a lot of work to do. Also, do you see yourself as a team player. I struggled with this answer, because I am so much wanting to be a team player. I also want it my way. As a leader, you want to be a team player. Many people over my 36 years of life have counted on me to lead. I wonder as I look back and reflect, was I a team player. I highly reccommend both books. Caution for th Dysfuncitons- there are cuss words in it. I wish that was not in the book.

Pray for Teenagers everywhere!

Satan is attacking our teenagers. Many of you know, I work with them daily. I see the good, bad, and the ugly. I would not trade my job with anyone. Pray! Pray again! They are so wired to do almost anything. If you can remember back to your teen years. I don't know if it was great or not. Satan is still battling to get their hearts. He must be defeated. I am reminded of the song I belong to Jesus. Pray, Pray, Pray. Please take the time to pray that they will see God. PRAY!

I have been tagged!

I was tagged by Jim Miller , a good friend of mine Here's my Christmas list.

1. Wrapping or gift bags? Gift bags - regift bag.
2. Real or artificial tree? Artificial- I have never had a tree in my house.
3. When do you put up the tree? Don't
4. When do you take the tree down? dont .
5. Do you like eggnog? NO.
6. Favorite gift received as a child? Train set- I loved train set.
7. Do you have a nativity scene? No.
8. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Fruitcake
9. Mail or email Christmas cards? email is easier- I usually mail them every two years
10. Favorite Christmas Movie? Preacher's wife
11. When do you start shopping for Christmas? Day after- cheap sales .
12. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Ham sandwiches- honey baked
13. Clear lights or colored on the tree? don't matter- I don't have a tree .
14. Favorite Christmas song? O Holy Night
15. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Travel every two years.
16. Can you name all of Santa’s reindeer? No, they did not come around my neighborhood.
17. Angel on the tree top or a star? NO, I don't have a tree.
18. Open the presents Christmas Eve or Christmas Morning? Christmas eve.
19. Most annoying thing about this time of year? Bells as you enter and exit the stores
20. Do you decorate your tree in any specific theme or color? No
21. What do you leave for Santa? Knuckle sandwich if he were to come into my house.
22. Least favorite holiday song? See # 19.
23. Favorite ornament? Cracker Barrel store ornament

I have tagged Liz, Rachel, Cara

I have not posted lately!

I have not posted anything lately. It has been busy. Right now, I am in a musical this weekend with East Cobb. I am fighting a cold as well. I do have a solo. Just pray that I will be able to do it. I have been helping with the basketball team. I think I may be going thru my midlife crisis of always wanting to be a coach especially a basketball coach. It has been fun. Lately, I have been thinking and praying about family, my students, and the school I work for. I may have said this before, but I hate when Adults fail children. I am seeing it a lot lately. It is not good. It is from satan. I have been looking deeply at myself lately as well. I love what I am doing,and I am very grateful for all the opportunities. I don't want to fail the children. I guess, I just need to rest and take a weekend off soon. I hope the holidays are going great for you. We are about 2 weeks out from our break. Happy Holiday's to everyone.

Update

Well,

Tonight I began my assistant coaching career by helping our 8th Grade Basketball Team to victory. We are 1-0. It was beautiful. I will only have to attend games with our team. I love the game of basketball and have a dream of one day coaching my own team. I have days in which I would like to teach bible and coach both basketball and football. My new dream job besides the one I currently have. I am the Chaplain for both Elementary and Junior High. Some days, I think I am better suited to coach and teach bible. This is just the time of year for teachers.

My mom is doing great! She has been sober now for a while. We look forward to the holidays.

I am back at East Cobb and worship has been incredible. I believe I needed and the congregation needed me to be gone for awhile. absence makes the heart grow fonder I believe is the saying.

Dating: Right now no one special. I have lost some weight here lately worrying about my mom. We are good, and I look forward to getting back on the saddle of dating again.

Spiritual Family

Spiritual Family is a big deal for me. You see I grew up as a bus ministry kid. My physical family still to this day does not frequent a local church. I have always enjoyed being surrounded by good spiritual people. I love those who are authentic and real. I have always been attracted to church people. Recently, I am back dealing with my physical family. I now understand more than ever the need to be surrounded by your spiritual one. We all have problems we must deal with, but having your spiritual family there is important. I have now gone back to the church that I have been leading at since my return to Georgia. I have found that I needed them a whole lot more than they needed me. Circumstances allowed me to return right where I left off which is Great. I really wanted to get real involved at North Atlanta church and jump right in. I know now that small churches is more my style. I have work with and have led singing at many of our large churches. I love the small ones. This is not everywhere, but the deep connected friendships I have had over my lifetime have been from my small church experience. I am dealing with my mom, but I am glad to have people who care and will walk with me this next journey. Small churches or Large churches I believe you need to be connected. Are you connected to a local church? Have you been burn by churches in the past? If so, start over again and see where God takes you.

Update

Everything is going well with my mom. I am along with my sisters are checking in more often. She is very lonely right now. Last week, was a setback. With family surrounding her, may make all the difference in the world. Keep my mom( Her name is Mary) in your prayers. It is sooo good to have my spiritual family surrounding me during all of this.

This week has been a busy one. I spoke today in High School chapel giving my testimony of what God has and is doing in my life. It was good for me to talk to them today. I also led our Junior High chapel reminding them about being good and being God. He loves them and they need to respect him always.

Chattanooga here I come with a bunch of 6th graders. Another trip, which are great to connect with kids. I have found myself really wanting to focus in on that lately. I did receive an email last week which I probably took the wrong way asking how am I connecting with our kids. The person was just asking a question and I took it as a threat. Anyway, all is good now.

God is good! Shine for him today!

Alcoholism

Today, I had to confront my mom about her renewed binge of drinking. After my step dad died I did not know what might happen. My mom tries to be the strong one. Today, we cried together. I wanted to have her to talk as much as she could. I got a call that she might be sick. Recently, I have reported how glad I am of the time I am spending with my mom here lately. My mom suffers from depression, more than I know. We talked about all of her children and grandchildren. She wants so much to be that grandmother that has everything. You know when the grandkids come over, there is nothing she won't do for them. This is not her situation especially with limited funds. I have been putting pressure( too much I learned today) on my mom to keep her finances in order. Like, problably many of you, I have to help out from time to time. All during my childhood, I can bearly remember my mom sober, only really for the last 12 years. I learned today like most people who are alcoholics, she wants to escape the realities of her situation. Please be in prayer for me, my family, and especially my mom. I am wanting another gathering when my mom is sober to really deal with our family issues. I have learned that many families have their issues. I am wanting to deal with this one for me.

I'm getting better!

I have returned from a few days in Washington DC with about 160+ seventh graders. I had 7 to kiddos to look after the whole time. I can honestly say that this year experience was a whole lot better than last year. I gave these 7 students candy. They were great! They behaved well, which made my job a lot easier. I say, I am getting better, because I actually enjoyed being with these 7 kids. They were with me the whole time. That is from Tuesday evening till Saturday morning 6am. You may not be proud, but I am. We toured Washington dc so fast, I would like to take a trip in the summer.

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Spent Saturday after I woke up with one of my nephews who turned 15 last week. We enjoyed some quality time together and rehashing his goals. He is one special kid. I thought my childhood was bad, he is a trooper. Hopefully next weekend we will go for his learner's permit( one of his goals for 15)

Church Consultant: Is there such a job? Every time I attend somewhere I am critiquing the service and asking the question "are they seeker friendly" Today, I was at North Atlanta, and I sat in the back and again said to myself, roll up your sleeves and get to work. I attended an afternoon service at a black church, and could say the same thing. Both places excited me about their outreach to the community. I volunteered to help tutor, serve on the Serving day, and help with Audio/AV. I think I might get a chance to lead worship every now and then. Hopefully this week I will know definitely. Keep in prayer for all churches as they continue to have an effect on our world.

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A day with my mother!

Today was another great day. I spent most of the day with my mother. I did attend two Junior High Football games before 12 noon. I took my mother out to eat which she hates because she loves to cook for me and the other members of my family. We went to see Tyler Perry's new movie " Why did I get married". It was really good. My mom was laughing, and laughing hard. I enjoyed just listening to her laugh. The theater was pretty crowded with mostly African American. Some of the laughing points came from the crowd. Anyway, my mom was enjoying herself. I took her away from her grandchildren who she probably loves more. I even made my baby sister made because she wanted to come. It was a great day!

The movie gives some insight into African American culture when it comes to marriage. Tyler Perry is very popular figure in the African American culture. Anyway, a good movie.

As I was leaving today, my mom had to asked if I was going to come back tomorrow. She loves having everyone come back to her house for Sunday dinner. My MO ,normally, is if I come on Saturday, I don't come on Sunday. Well, today I told her I would be there for some good ole southern cooking. The menu for those who care: Collard Greens, fatback, cornbread, Ham, and my mom's famous potatoe salad. The only thing missins is sweet potatoe pie. Knowing my mom, that is what she will make on Sunday. I have been pretty good on my diet lately. Tomorrow we will be resting the calorie counting. If you have not called your mother to tell her how much you love her, what are you waiting on? Get off the computer and call her. Bye!

Issues, Issues, Issues

Well, this should be an interesting post.....

Do you have issues? I did asked if you had issues not me. Don't we always think that other people have the issues and not you. I have known my issues for years. The question is how do you deal with your issues. Right now, I am enjoying Volleyball at North atlanta on Monday nights. I will leave when it the clock hits 9pm. Whenever the game ends near that time, I will leave. I generally don't attend too many African American churches because of the service length. This is interesting coming from a guy who attended: Methodist, Pentecostal, Baptist, and Church of christ joy buses all day on sundays. Today, I am good for about an hour and half, and I am looking to exist. Those who have worked with me in worship, know I like people to long for more worship and not give it all to them in one setting. I have issues. Small groups the last couple of sunday nights have been long. I am visiting different small groups to see where I fit. Everyone that I have attended have been long. I talking 3+ hours. They don't know that I am struggline thinking it is time to go home. Contrast this with going out to eat, I can stay all day talking around a meal. Many of my dinner dates, we have closed down the restaurant.

Issues, Issues, Issues.......

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Jim Miller won! I could not watch the game. The dawg's are good. Tennessee came to work on Saturday. Jim check this out Regas Hahaha! I will be making my plans to come to knoxville soon. TD

Another Great Day!

Today is my mom's 61st birthday. I took the day off to spend with her. It was another great day! We went to have lunch with 2 of the 3 sisters. We ate at my mom's favorite(mine too) Mary Mac Tea room downtown Atlanta. We went to a thrift store(another favorite of my moms) where she really did not buy anything(strange for my mom) I later discovered can't buy if you don't have money. So, we went to Bath and Body works! My sister's had to remind me that not everyone is made of money( I know this, they think I don't) So, my tradition with my mom is for us to get the best deal. Well, they had the Buy 3 and get one free! You should have seen the smile. After taking my sister back to her home, I picked up my nephews to take to my mom's house for her birthday. We enjoyed laughing and I enjoyed watching my mom laugh. We have not had the best of times as I have had to implement budget in order for her to live on her own. We had a great day!


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Random Question: Any thoughts on Single parents with children? Or a single person with children? I guess they are both the same. Any thoughts?

Great Service today!

Have you ever been to a service where the Holy spirit takes over. Well, today I felt like he did! Today, I worshpped with the East Cobb church. Yes, I was leading, but I think the Holy Spirit took over today! We started with a song that I like to lead call " Let us worship the father" I like to start service on time, so we would end on time. Potluck was to follow. Those who know me- I lovesssss some Potluck! The song was Days of Elijah. I have led this some trillions of time, but today was a different sunday. I believe my worship is so much better when I do it with others. Today proved my case for me. It was different. I could have sung it 20 times this morning. Everyone filled with awe- comes to my mind. Sunday's like today is what it is all about. We got a little glimspe of heaven. God was there today! I wanted to step aside and have his spirit to continue leading. I am not saying that the spirit it not always there. Today was different


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How do you know when to listen to the spirit? Today, I questioned myself for the first time about leaving East Cobb and going to North Atlanta. Wow! Be in prayer! I want to listen to God!


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Go Dawgs! What a game yesterday! I am becoming a bigger Dawg fan right now. It reminds me of when I finally became a Maverick's fan. It is contagious. What is your favorite college team? Go Dawgs!

Life has been good!

Life has been good. I am enjoying life here lately. I have spent some quality time with my mom, enjoying the bible classes at North Atlanta, and enjoying my work at GAC. Life is good! I did missed out on a white water trip this past weekend. I was looking forward to going and then I overslept. Can you believe that? I can't believe it! I went to bed early, excited about going down that river. I told my classes how I was looking forward to it, and then I overslept. I thought I set the alarm( I set the time to wake up, but did not push the turn alarm on button). I am sooooo mad at myself. I tried to clean my apartment and had enough of that and took my mom out to lunch instead of finishing this great task. Well, tonight is volleyball games. I will attend my Junior High team and then proceed to North Atlanta and play with Jay Collins and others. Some may remember this red head. I have known him for so long. He is a really cool guy. Nothing new on the woman front, but I am attending a great class to expose my issues. (Mainly to myself, not really out in front of people- Are you kidding me?) Anyway, those of you still reading, God is not threw with me yet! Keep being good!

Rated G

I just found out that my blog is rated as "G" for general audiences. It did say that I had one bad word and I guess now it will be two: the word crack. so I apologize to those I have offended with this word. So what is your rating? http://mingle2.com/blog-rating

Other than this, Life is good. I have nothing new to report, so stay tune! Thanks to http://tinaallyn.blogspot.com/ for sharing this rating site to all of my friends. Although, I don't think I have met you yet at North Atlanta. Thanks anyway!

Jeff Walling was here!

Jeff kicked off our 40th year of existence for GAC. He did a great job. Speaking to prek - 12th grade. He is an amazing speaker. I know he is in demand, and I also know he touched lives today. Thanks Jeff for an amazing job today!

September is here!

Cooler weather has arrived in Atlanta. I have been sweatin up a storm. I even went to the doctor to make sure I was doing alright. He said I was. I lost a few pounds( He also was glad about that as well) My body is large( don't laugh- yours is problably large as well) Anyway, cooler weather is here and I will hopefully now be able to wear shirts that are light without worrying about underarm sweat( that sounds bad)

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Today was my last day officially with the East Cobb Church. I have trully enjoyed my time there. I will be attending North Atlanta church beginning next week. Right now just as a member- more to report later. They gave me a dating basket as I have told them this move is being made because I don't want to be 40 and single. ( I am reminded again of the 42 old woman who wanted to date me- YIKES!) Well, in 6 years I'll be that woman. So, God said Go young man! Anyway, I am looking forward to being a regular member for once. I have never been in this situation. It will be interesting while it last!


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My mom continues to crack me up. This is the lady who taught me to say even to my students "The more you cry, the less you pee" ( I know, keep laughing- she has more, but this is a G-rated website) Today, she informs me that she paid her rent. Not too funny, I had not deposited her checks yet, she went on to say it would be ok her rent man really did not need the money. I asked her how did she know, he still had not cashed the check from last month. I proceeded to tell her that did not matter. She proceeded to tell me where to go. ( if you know what I mean) She is very funny, if you are around, I never know what she might say to you.


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I am now caught up on all of the beginning of the year things teacher's have to do. I have been behind here lately. I continue to thankful for the opportunities God gives me to minister to others. This week, I agreed to lead worship for the Christian Education Associations meeting in Nashville, Tennessee. Good ole Dr. Jerry Bowling from Harding, gave me the call. He and his late wife Carol, both always encouraged me while I did my volunteer work for Downtown Church in Searcy. He is a good man. I look forward to seeing him again in January. This reminds me of all of the Youth gatherings I have had a chance to be part of. I will blog about that at some point. Anyway, I hope that you enjoy your Labor day weekend. Terry

What has been going on since August 7th

School is in session. My new 7th Graders are great! They are so full of energy. I don't know if I can keep up with them. I love that they laugh at my jokes. Nobody else does! Ha! Anyway, School has started and I have hit the ground running. I had about 45 youth ministers to attend a luncheon on our campus to show them appreciation. This was a major project that has not been done and turend out to be successful. We invited 75 and got 45 for a first year effort this is pretty good. I acted as the MC and felt like I was at a comedy club. One lady had been in the ministy for 29 years. I asked her out in front of everyone. She was married! I didn't care, I told her at this point for me bring her husband! Everyone just laughed and had a great time. Things are still going sooo fast here lately. It was announced last sunday that I would be leaving East Cobb and attending North Atlanta where a good friend of mine preaches Don Mclauglin. I will be leading their this sunday. Please pray that all will go well. I know God is with me, and I love letting him know others are praying as well for Sunday to go well. All I want to do is worship, but I am sure satan will try to show up and I hope we will defeat him. Anyway, I will tell you more about this later. I am trying to buy a wii system for my office. Those that might not know it is a video game system. I have big plans for it Friday for Chapel. I am not having much luck finding one right now. Those who are still with me- the 42 year old is still trying to call me! What do I do besides find her a husband. ( I know be quiet Terry- What we you do if you were me? NO I will not marry her) Anyway, I hope with my move to North Atlanta that I will listen to God as I get involved there! Well, more later! Let God shine on you wherever you are. ( I include the 42 year old as well! Ha!)

Great Time on my trip!

I have a wonderful time this past week travelling in Oklahoma, Texas(Hot), and Arkansas(Hotter). I got to visit with friends who are very special to me. I ate with those that I could: Vernon and Ann, Roxie and Brent, KT and Jimmy, Nathan, Chris, Liz, and Jeremy( a hoot, you all need to meet Jeremy- He is growing to me one incredible young man- Liz and Chris- you will make it- If not I come to at least your trial- Hahaha), Layne and Kristy,Clinton and Belinda, and Brittany, and, kent and cara!

It was wonderful and tiring. I travelled over 1500 miles driving, and flew about 1500 miles round trip. It was great!

Those who know me well know that I enjoy taking people out to lunch. A good and bad habit. When I was a full time minister- it was great! Church paid for it! Now, I still enjoy a great meal with good company. I love that I have been blessed in this way. I also love when friends undersstand that about me. Many people took me out to dinner during my early years. I thought that was awesome, and now I get the chance as well. It really has become a hobby of mine!

2nd day of preplanning! Wow! I can't wait till the kids arrive. I will write more, but wanted to let you know how great my trip was. Have a blessed day!

Update from the Road

Well,

It has been good so far. I got the chance to see some people I have not seen in quite a while. I have to say, I do miss Texas. I drove around Desoto sunday afternnon to just look at the place that I had not been in over a year. I got the chance to worship at Creekside ( Rolling Hills) in their brand new building. This has been an answered prayer for them. They had over 400 people in attendance the very first sunday in the building. I have a lot of mixed emotions about my time at this place. Again, I will say I met some very wonderful people who have impacted my life and for that I will be forever grateful. I did have Country Fried Steak for lunch on sunday. I like the car I have rented for this very special week. I have been pondering whether to buy a new car. Hopefully, I won't, but this Cobalt rides pretty well.

I am on the campus of Oklahoma Christian where a good friend of mine( Nathan) invited to speak to his leadership camp. I am excited about tonight, but needed a break to report to you all. I will get a chance to have dinner tonight with KT and Jimmy( I posted their pictures in an earlier blog) Life is sooo good. We are eating in my favorite all time restaurant Cracker Barrel. Wish you were here, gonna go! Bye!

Leadership- Teens/ Adults

I have spent the last couple of days catching up on many things. One, would be spending quality time wth my nephews and nieces. I have learned so much this week about leadership with teens. They are still watching the adults. We have to be honest with them. We forget sometimes they are still very young. I love quality time with my nephews and nieces when I am not in a rush to go somewhere. I needed to catch up. It has help me in my preparation for the Oklahoma Chrisitan Leadership Academy that I am speaking at next week. I am so looking forward to this gathering. I get to visit with some friends I have not seen in a few months while there. Anyway, be praying for teens all over the world. The adults still have a role in helping the teens lead. They would still like for adults to lead them now while they are still learning. Let's never forget that! Be Good!

Travel plans over the next few weeks updated

Ok, here we go!





July 20-22 Rest at home
July 22-25 MORE REST AT HOME WITH THE NEPHEWS
July 25-28 Pack and move into new place





July 28- August 5
July 29-30 Edmond Oklahoma










July 31st Dallas, TX Frank Alexander's daughter wedding- Liz maybe Lunch today or the next day











August 3-5 Eldorado, Arkansas
August 5th Fly back to Georgia


August 6th Faculty/Staff Spiritual Renewal day- Back to work!

Camp is over! Good news to tell, problably after my trips.

Crazy World!!!!

Well, it has been awhile. I did get much needed rest and want some more. I have many things coming up here in a few weeks. One more day of daycamp(8 weeks YIKES). I have been busy preparing to move. I get check off a few things:

Apartment-DONE
Lights-DONE
Gas-DONE plus $50 visa gift card- Yeh!
Cable- NOT NEEDED- You will not believe what they want to charge for a combo of direct tv without a sallelite disk( No this is not stolen cable)- Direc Path is the company.

Address change for mail, and other bills- TBD

I do have some other news that I can't report right now but will here in the near future. ( No, it is not marriage- I wish- My leasing consultant was pretty hot! But No!)

I have been reading some very interesting blogs lately. Check out Liz Moore and Terry Rush- they are both blogging some real good stuff here lately! I hope to blog soon! Upcoming trips- Dallas Texas, Edmond Oklahoma, and El Dorado, Arkansas! That's all for now!

Rest Rest Rest

Rest is coming! I am looking forward to getting out of town for a few days. No, I am not telling where I am going, just that it will be far from Georgia. Not Texas, not yet. I am working on a trip at the end of the month. I have found a condo and an apartment I like. I will see what will happen over the next few days.

I have found a new show to watch or it found me. It is called the Realestate Pro( I think) it is on the TLC channel. I love watching behind the scene stuff, like how it was made, and etc. Their marathons keep coming on tv on the weekend. Anyway, I like the program. He decides to buy a house, fix it up and on the market within a week. I am facinated because they never show any stumbling block for him. He gets it done. I continue to watch just to see what the cost to renevate and final sale price.

I was asked today, how long I stayed at Harding, and also Texas. I think the person asking the questions is trying to figure out how long I will be here at GAC. I don't plan on leaving. I did not plan on leaving Harding, or my first Texas ministy either. I think sometimes God allows you to explore. I saw Evan Almighty yesterday, it was funny and deep for me in understanding God. How he works in our lives and how he answers our request. I saw it with a bunch of day campers from 3rd grade to 8th graders. I like when I can go and leave a theatre being more challenge in my faith.


I will be not blogging for a few days. I hope to return next week with great news about where I will live and hopefully reveal my Texas plans. Good night!

This week's benchmark July 8-14

Stolen from Terry Rush Blog: I will look this week to see how I am doing! Terry wrote we are ahead of the world in our thinking how are you this week?~

Here are ten items I see the kingdom already knows while the world lags behind:
Terry Rush


To live, die to self.
To keep, give away.
To be strong, use your weaknesses.
To win, lose.
To perpetually preserve in memory, consume weekly (Lord's Supper).
To win an argument, don't argue.
To get a lot done, don't engage in a lot of things. Focus.
To be effectively active, be still and know He is God.
To lead well, care about the reject.
To care about the reject, remember if it weren't for His mercy you would still be one.

2nd Sunday Off

Today, the two churches I visited was Campus Church and East Point church(one that I grew up in).

Today, I got to sleep in again, but longer. I did not go to Sunday School class, but went to second service. I can now understand why people skip bible class, and sleep in on Sundays. This is the second sunday for me to sleep later. Don't worry, I will not slide too much, but I am enjoying this time off.

Campus 2nd service: I loved the singing and to see the diversity in the room. The only problem is that I did not see it upfront on stage. I said to myself, what a great diverse church that the leadership have not embraced it's diversity. I will tell you what I mean by that: I have worked for many churches and have consulted some to say to the leadership let your actions speak louder than your words. Though this church is very diverse but no other ethnic group in their praise team, announcements, preaching, Lord supper comments,and etc. Actions- nonverbals count more with minorities. So many people have given lip service, show it in your actions. I even began thinking about the school in which I work and asked the same question there. It has been here for 40 years and though the student population is diverse, the faculty is not. We even have a director of diversity(black) but we trully lack diversity in key leadership positions. This is sad since we are in 2007.

East Point: Smaller than campus, but I trully enjoyed talking to lifelong friends. Louis Robinson-big time mentor in my life, Jimmy Robinson-courted his daughter who is not serving in Kuwait(Yes, she is married for those wanting to know more), Rita- woman of faith also the church secretary, and so many more. Eric Welchel is the preacher there now. I enjoyed thinking about the many years in that building. They will canvass the area next saturday. I think I am going to try and join them just for more fun in my simple boring life.

I have enjoyed today. I also got a chance to go to my mothers for Sunday dinner. I continue to be amazed at how happy my mom is when all of her children and grandchildren share a meal she cooked. She is a wonderful soulfood cook. We have collard greens, pototoe salad(my mom has the best) fried chicken(You don't have to be black to enjoy), and to top it off my favorite dessert sweet potatoe pie. It was good!

This is my do or die week about a house. I am hopefully going to view one more condo that I am hoping will be the one and make an offer and close by the end of the month. If this does not happen, I will be in an apartment again for another year- which would not be bad, but I need the interest payments. I might buy some land to build on in the future who knows.

I do have two more weeks of daycamp. We are going to see Evan Almighty tomorrow. It should be an easy day. I do hope your week goes well. Be Good!

1st Sunday Off- No upfront leading

Well, this was my first real sunday off. What I mean by that is that I did not lead singing or preach somewhere. I can not honestly remember the last time that happened. I started my day by getting up at 9am. Please understand I have eithre left my house or at the church by 8:30, to sleep in on a sunday was a real treat. I went to see brother don this morning. He was great- Pray, pass, pause, pray, and perceived. Don hit me between the eyes with this one. I can be very selfish person. Don reminded me how I think of things with his example of buying a door at Home Depot. He had to wait for 90 minutes, I said it right 90 minutes for a specialist to get the door down for don to purchase. I did go to bible class, I wanted to skip it just to see how it felt. I went and it was an endurance. I like more interactive classes than someone lecturing in the same tone. Anyway, Don's lesson straighten me out on this one as well. I went tonight to a smaller church to just check out sunday night church. Three songs and the rest of the time was sermon time about the plan of salvation. It was a good reminder to me when he asked the question who are you studying the bible with lately. I want to encourage all to be involved in a study with someone. It keeps you healthy in your relationship with God. He put us here to share the story. Embry Hill reminded me of that tonight. I also got a chance to drop by and help with tech issues with a mission team to African. The movie was "Faith like potatoes". This movie based on a true story really hit home on my wonderful Sunday off Sunday. I don't know how you can get it but it inspire me to asked the question about my own faith. I know God has been very faithful to me. I need to be more faithful to him. The following I would like to express as I recommit my faith to him:

I have faith that God will:

Find me a place to live to bring him more glory
Find me a help me to continue working for the kingdom
Heal my family of issue and point more of them to him
Used me as a vessel to facilitate all that he wants to do with my work at GAC,East Cobb, and etc.
Bring me closer to friends I have not seen or contacted in a while.
Direct me to a doctoral study to fulfill a promise made earlier in my life.
Fill me with joy, and contentment as I do more for the kingdom
Make it more clear to me the objective of day camp and my role there.

Have a blessed week!

What has been going on this week?

This has been a good week so far. I am excited about my sunday's in July. I will return to lead singing on the 22nd of July. I will be mostly visiting other churches. I got an emailed today from a good friend inviting me to speak at an event for young leaders. I hope all will go well and I will be able to speak to them at the end of July. I also think I have found the condo I want. It will need a little paint and possibly new carpet. I look forward to closing the deal on that one. Today, I went to Six Flags with the campus church youth group. It was a good day for me to just walk around and people watch. I noticed that the rides have gotten smaller seats( Hint: I know what you are thinking) Anyway, it was a good hot day reminding me of Texas. Speaking of Texas, I believe I will make my journey there to summer. I can't believe I will go to such a hot place. I need to visit some friends and get away for awhile. This weekend, I will problably be moving my mom into her apartment. I would share in this forum that ordeal but I won't at this time. I need to catch a movie this weekend. Don't know what is playing. All I know is that is $9.25 here for a matinee. I CAN NOT BELIEVE IT! In Desoto/Lancaster Texas I used to pay $2 for a first run matinee. I was spoiled! Anyway, that is all for now!

B.M.W.

Well today was pretty good. My campers took the news pretty well about the robbery. Coach Davis made it a part of his morning devo. Many were sad and were concern about this. Well, today was my first day to start walking back and forth to work. This experience is highly overrated. Just like running, who said it was fun. It rained today when I began and I delayed leaving. I waited and then proceeded home to have the rain to continue. Well, I know most woman want a BMW. Well, I hope they don't mean BLACK MAN WALKING. I have to admit this is good for me. I scheduled my annual check up for next monday. I guarantee you I know what he will say. Eat less, exercise more, lose weight! How many have never heard that from a doctor. Anyway, my papers for my bank loan for a house came in, so tomorrow I hope will be my last outing in looking for a house. I have the papers in hand to hopefully close in middle of next month so I will have a few weeks in my new home before school starts. Have a blessed day!

Random Thoughts

Well, It has been a pretty good day today. It was my last sunday for awhile to lead singing since I will be taking some time off. I will be trying to find a house to buy since my deadline of finding one is quickly closing in this summer.

This morning, I shared with the worship team that I have a hard time tending to those who are already saved. I think my ministry is with those who are either leaving the church or never have been to church. They don't have all the issues those growing up in the church has regarding those who lead. I have worked for many churches and have found this to be sooo true. They are trying to maintain the church they knew while growing up. I have always had a spirit that cause me to think outside the box. I hope that I was not offensive in my delivery this morning. I have been told I can be cruel when I am very passionate about something. One day, I will blog about how singles are treated in the church compared to the world. Let me tell you, it would be so much easier to just be in the world, but wait where I would spend eternity stops me! Oh well!

I was stopped in the hallway at church by an older gentlemen who wanted me to know that I could not leave this church unless he goes with me. He was very appreciative of my work at East Cobb. I was very appreciative of his comments to me. Most of the time, adults don't share that way. I was glad meet this gentlemen today. Ministry is sooo hard. I believe it is because you spend 90% of your time dealing with issues brought up by members. I thought we were supposed to be evangelizing the world.

I shared with the teenagers this morning John 3:16. Wanting them to define God, love, belief,perishing, and everlasting life. The easiest one for them was everlasting life(promise of Heaven). Defining God and love was the hardest. I would like for you to pray for this youth group to continue their quest in finding God and love. They are precious to me because I spent about 8 months with them.

Adults, I want to in the near future talk about being an Adult. I work with teenagers(my preferred group) over Adults for many reasons. I will tell you about them soon.

I am going carless(no car) this week. I let my sister borrow my car to carry my mom to her appointments in an Air conditioned vehicle. I get to walk to work. Don't be too sad for me, it is just a 5 minute walk.

I went to Campus church tonight to hear John Alan Turner. He was at GAC when I was. He did a great job. I know that he is committed to making families better. Major point tonight was that learning the bible is the Home's responsibility not the church. The church should support what is already happening in the home not vice versa. Good point! May it help you today!

Right now the only thing stolen was this cybershot camera. I will miss it. I don't know what they will do with it without the cords, and battery charger. May they find all the happiness with my camera. I hope to have another one before school starts back. I did not know how much it was worth till I searched for a new one. I closed a credit and bougbt it with the points. Anyway, I'll get another one, but not this one. It was expensive.

Have a blessed week!

Great Story

I will not end my night on a sad note. Click on to this story.
Tell me what do you think? Be a Johnny today!

I GOT ROBBED!!!!

I got robbed today. I returned home before going to my mother's house and my apartment had been burglarized. I can not really described the feeling I have tonight. Yes, I am still in my apartment. The Police was no help at all. It was though I was his way of doing nothing today. The apartment maintenance guy went beyond the call of duty to figure out how they got into my apartment. I had left a window unlocked in my bedroom and they took the screen off and push my dresser drawers to get in. They trashed my apartment. Right now he/they only took my digital camera, and maybe some checks. I could not believe it. My labtop was in clearview, my paycheck from East Cobb was in clearview, my target watch was in clear view(now I know it must not be worth much when a person is in a hurry). This looked like a grab and go type of crime. They were looking for cash. They went in my medicine cabinet to find nothing. This was horrible! I felt at the time of opening the door to my apartment very invaded. I am 36 years old and very rarely have I felt afraid until today for that moment at least. I wanted out, and wanted out fast. I sat down outside waiting on the police to come-45 minutes later. ( Ironically, I was with my realestate agent the day before and we set the alarm off in a condo and the police was there in 2 minutes) I guess I am back living in the ghetto of Atlanta. After being afraid, and settling down, I felt like I wanted to fight. They/He will not win. The maintenance guy will receive a letter and a gift card for helping me tonight. I regained my senses. I will continue my search for a new home. My lease is up the end of July. Up till now, I really have not had to many problems while living here. I had been warned by people to not live here, but I felt like it was the classic fear of seeing too many minorities living in one area. I needed cheap rent and it was very close(next door) to where I worked. Anyway, as the Sanford and Son episode which came on the other night I can say " I have been robbed"

East Cobb Church of Christ

I thought tonight I would blog about the current church I am attending and working for today. When I say it like that, some may think that I will leave. I don't know what the Lord has planned for me. I know I am driven by need. I think I am needed there and that I am contributing to what is happening there. This church and it's leader was there for me at a transition point where I needed many things. They welcomed me like I was a celebrity or something. I appreciated the leadership then and I do now. I have worked for many churches, and have seen many types of leaders in the shepherd's role. I appreciate their willingness to care more about the people than building and things. Are these men perfect? No! Am I perfect? No! We do get to listen to Preacher Ray! I called him Preacher Ray, because he wears many hats. I mentioned in a previous post about preacher's I enjoy listening to. As Ray reminded me that his name was not there, it really was an oversight. I enjoy hearing him preach the word each sunday because it seems so fresh. I have left (I can honestly say) many sunday feeling challenge in my faith and walk with God. He is very passionate about preaching the word of God. Ray has many hats, and I am one who is grateful that one of those is preaching at East Cobb. Ray tells me that he knows I can go and lead at any church I want, I usually have to tell him he's crazy. Not too many places can handle a worship leader like me. I love letting the spirit guide me during the planning and during the actual worship service. This has scared many preachers over the years, but Ray and many at East Cobb has encouraged me to stay the course. Keep listening to the spirit and his guidance. I am thankful for a church like East cobb that wants to see God's message spread throughtout the world. I am glad God has brought me here. I pray that God will keep me here. Like my regular ministry with GAC, I want to be a Lifer. Only God knows the timeline with that. So, to East Cobb, I say thank you and I love you! We are not perfect, but we are on the right track as long as we let the spirit guide us. TD

Who decides what songs you sing each sunday?

Who should decide what you sing each Sunday? Elders,Worship leader, Committee,members, or let say the Holy Spirit. This has been on my mind for a while, so I will blog my thoughts on the subject. I have led worship at many places and have always been amazed how people think they should pick the songs. Granted on one hand, I do get to choose the songs. I just start thinking about the Old Testament in how they people did not do it right. They worshipped the wrong thing and did not follow order. I want you to know the worship that I planned with the Holy Spirit's help is seasoned with prayer in order that we can worship in truth and spirit. This is very important to me. I problably could count on both hands the times where I got to sing what I like. Some people think that this is always the case. Believe me, It is not!

If I don't choose the songs who should? I want to build the case for all of those(I believe there are 2 of you) who read my blog, to pray for that Worship leader or song leader whatever you call it at your church. Randy Harris had spoken last week about how the taste of music of a congregation could be split in thirds. So, each song sung at your service, about 2/3rd of the people prefer another style or just plain don't like that hymn. So, if you are the worship planner(leader), you are in a no-win situation. This being the case, choose to rely on God's spirit to guide you on song selections. People will be mad no matter what! Is that biblical? I don't think so. If you look at the parable of the wedding feast taught by Jesus, he tells us to not to be first or to have it our way. The first shall be last and the last shall be first. We say we want to serve, but really we say I want to have it my way. Side note: Just because you are older does not give you the right over those who are younger. The bible even warns the young peole to not let you look down on them because they are young.

Be prayerful of that leader, if he gets it wrong(grace will still be given) or starts listening to members- how can he tell that your request is from the Holy spirit. Remember God is the audience, NOT YOU! Another sidenote: Who do you think receives the praise you are given? Who is doing all of the listening? Let me answer this one for you--GOD. I have had to tell people over the years that they are not lifting their hands for the people around them- It is to the Receiver- God. Does this mean that the worship leader should not take suggestions? No, but be careful what you ask for.

Worship is very important to me. Over the years, many have considered my style of leading worship participatory-friendly. I love when every one can sing to God without reservations. I have led in churches where new songs were discouraged and encouraged.. I have led at churches where old songs were discouraged and encouraged. I do believe in a blended service with BOTH type of songs. I don't mean do all your preferred style and then throw in one or two of the other style. I have even been a part of a work that called it balanced if we had 4 days of old style and 1 day of the new. He called that BALANCE! Are you kidding me!

I just want to praise the Lord. My prayer is that there is a church out there that will want to be led by the spirit and want their leaders to be led by the spirit. I believe when the spirit is working in a church the only boundaries are the ones we selfimpose. What do you think?

Summer Camp

I have never been to a summer camp as a child, I have always been there as a counselor or a speaker. I do have conditions if I now will attend a summer camp. Air condition is a MUST. Sleeping arrangements, don't matter to me unless there is no air condition. The summer camp I am currently working at is a day camp on our school campus. Needless to say, I am good! Air conditions abound unless I walk outside. Here are some pictures of the campers this week:

1st Political post

My good friend Jim miller has an interesting blog today. Take his survey and let me know how it came out for you. I ended up 55% Thompson. Hillary was dead last @ 28%. Have a blessed day and weekend!

Church and School

Tonight I found myself thinking about Church and school. Many of you know I work for my almater Greater Atlanta Christian. A very fine Christian institution, and tonight like every night this week I was face with a dilemna. Whether to wear shorts or not? I know this is not a big deal for many. I considered myself a visitor tonight and have seen some their own members wearing shorts. I was running late tonight returning my nephew home and running back to hear Randy tonight. I still had my shorts on, but went home anyway to change into jeans. What is appropriate to wear to services? Because many of my students attend along with their parents, I changed clothes. My norm would have been to wear what I had on and if anyone had a problem with it, it would just be their problem. I am glad I still wear whatever I want at East Cobb, but even there, some would love for me to wear a suit. I always tell those that their next worship leader will wear a suit. Anytime they are ready to find him, let me know. Suit no more, only on those occasions( funeral, wedding- where I am the groom)

I have mentioned Texas in my previous post, where I received a lecture before being hired full time as a worship minister on what is appropriate to wear not only to church but in the office setting. I don't mind dressing up, but I don't get the whole outside appearance means more than substance. Anyway, how has any of you dealt with this in your adult life? A big reason for me to love teenagers is relationship. They will tell me when my hat don't match my clothes or shoes not matching clothes. The teens don't really focus on that but the relationshi(ok, most of the time) . Why can't we as adults do that? Why did I have a dilemna tonight! I don't know! Randy was good again, but this is what was on my mind tonight. Sleep well, TerryD

Looking forward to July

This summer, I am helping with a day camp that has served me in a way to outreach to the community around the school I teach. This has been exhausting(physically)which is alright since I need the exercise, but has been very rewarding. In July, I will be taking a month off from my worship leading duties to reflect, pray, vacation, and whatever God takes me to on Sunday. I am a person who loves to travel and experience new things. I am 36, and sometimes feel like I am 66, tied to all of my different responsiblities. Tim Spivey said it well in his blog listed here http://www.typepad.com/t/trackback/2068372/19030256. I am looking forward to July.

Update on Randy tonight: He presented the story on the prodigal son. Again, an excellent lesson presented like we had never heard it before. I feel like Randy, that I am like the older brother in the story, who has done all the things right and tended to those who were hurt, and then this punk comes and we throw a party for him. Randy is good! I felt very convicted tonight to give up control and see what God has planned for me. Everything I get to do is great! I wondered if I am prepared to receive the people Randy talked about tonight in the service. He mentioned worship wars of the future being more about Punk rock, rap, and etc. Are we ready for this? As a worship leader, I was challenged tonight. I was thinking tonight how nondiverse the worship team was tonight. Here is a church wanting to embrace the community but have a very lily white praise team. They have a Korean ministry, Hispanic ministry, and a meals-on-wheel for people staying in extended stay hotels- and no diversity on the praise team. This is not a cut on this church or the worship leader who I believe is awesome. He along with his team will be coming to East Cobb sunday night. So, I mentioned it here as an observation and a direct call to put up or shut up as I continue to digust Randy's lesson tonight. Randy encouraged them to go for it. Don't be afraid. Please join me in prayer not only for this church, but all christians as we think about our responsiblity and respond to Luke 15. It was a great evening. Terry

Randy Harris @ Campus Church tonight!

He was awesome as always. I am amazed everytime I hear him. I put him up there with the great preacher/speakers of my limited 36 years of life. My favorite all time speakers are( in no particular order): Randy Harris, Mike Cope, Patrick Meade, Don Mclauglin, Jeff Walling, Fred McClure, Terry Rush, Marvin Phillips, Dr. Ken Neller( The very best short preacher sermons I have ever heard)Late Bro.Reginald Dulin, Keith luttrell and Harold Washington. There are so many. Who would be in your top ten?

Date last night!

Many have asked so I will tell you about last nights date! It started out by me leaving work late to get ready for this thing. I would be driving during rush hour to pick let's say Lady W up. I should back up a little, to say I found out earlier today SHE IS 42 YEARS OLD YIKES! I know many of you would say- big deal, but it is to me. Anyway, we were going to drop by a friend of hers who's marriage is not going well. I know, I know, what are we doing here! My job was to lead a prayer after the conversation stopped. Well, after about 3 hours, I led a prayer. We went back to Downtown Atlanta and ate at an ok restaurant. Food was good, Service was good! BUT, I GOT A PARKING TICKET for an expired meter. I could not believe it because I did not see any meters around when I parked. Needless to say, I will now have to pay $10 for this oversight. It would make a better story if there would be a second date. 42! That is my latest! I will get in trouble for this, but I know she(42) is not internet savy. Ok, you can stop laughing now! TD

Nashville, TN

Place that serves the best bread in Nashville! We ate there! A great Ribeye!

Jimmy and KT on a carriaged ride downtown Nashville!




Are they not a cute couple. Congrats! on 5 years!

2006-2007 School year DONE

I have graded and posted my grades so I am done with this school. Again, it has been a great school year. I have finally arrived at a place that accepts me as me. This is sooo comforting. I love Junior High! I will say it again, I love Junior High.

God has answered many prayers this year. I want share some of them with you today!

1. Selling my house from Texas

2. Moving me out of Texas!

3. Having some real good friends while living in Texas! (Probably my only positive)

4. Moving me to Georgia to be close to my family.

5. Connecting with the students of GAC especially Junior High and Elementary

6. Finding a church family like East Cobb

7. Bringing me closer to my physical family

8. Bringing a few relationships for me to learn once more that I am picky!

9. Starting over with a new school.

10. Seeing that my students at Dallas Christian are doing well!

Random

I had a very good weekend with my mom coming to spend the whole weekend. We got to visit a lot and remember the good days. She will come and live with me this summer. I pray that she will begin to explore with freedom.

Senior Sunday at East Cobb was great! 4 great graduates and I will missed my time with the youth group!

Finals, Finals, Finals! as we end another school year, I am soooo excited about the summer. I will be helping with our summer camp here at GAC. It will be a busy summer, but very rewarding. I will blog more, I got finals to grade!

1st Blog

I am writing my very first blog. I will attempt to keep this blog current. I want to stay in touch with my students and their activities this summer. So come on back and see what is new in the life of the GAC guy.

This Summer, I have many activities and goals. I will be assisting Coach Davis at the Sonshine Camp at GAC. We had our first meeting this morning. It looks like a very good crew for the summer. Also, I will be moving into a new house. ( I give my 60 day notice at the end of the month) Another goal of mine for the summer is to LOSE some weight. Be in prayer for my activities and I will be in prayer about yours. What should I be praying for this summer for you? Leave your comments.